Oh my goodness…not another rant!?

rant

I do not delete the crappy people from my friends list! Why? Am I a glutton for punishment, a drama queen, a drama junkie???!!  No, none of those! I have learned to not let the crappy people bother me and I use them to further my growth! How you say? I read what they rant write about and it makes me want to be better! I mean it cultivates in me a wish to be better!

Who would have thought the day would come when I’d have control over the negative stuff flowing out of others mouths! So much so that I can use it to better myself? Awesome! Pure genius! Love it!

So what are you going to do today? Use the rants of the crappy people to get crappy and stressed out yourself OR take what is behind door number two!? Control over your own destiny! Control over your attitude!

Friends don’t let friends defriend! It is soooooooo immature and you could learn so much more by keeping these rant-ers close and letting them fuel your good side!

But YES…first you must learn to not let it bother you! Some people can’t get there.  I admit, it took me a while! But how gloriously wonderful it is to be on the other side!  Peace!

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Remember this…

goldenrule

A kiss is just a kiss!  haha…no really….

Just because you say it is so, doesn’t mean it is.  Just because you devalue another person by reducing their feelings to drama, or being oversensitive, doesn’t mean you are right or they are any less hurt by what you did or said.

We all need to take responsibility for our words and actions;realizing both can hurt others. And if someone is hurt by either our words or actions it is up to us to apologize.  Just because you think it shouldn’t hurt them, that they are blowing it out of proportion (or whatever you tell yourself to justify your words and/or actions) does not mean you are right! It doesn’t make them any less hurt.

I think people who bully probably follow this philosophy of devaluing peoples pain.

I try to follow the golden rule; “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you!”

I bet if I said something or did something to you that hurt your feelings you would be pretty upset if I told everyone you were just being too sensitive= devaluing your feelings!  Your feelings matter, as do mine.