You are you, I can’t (and have no wish to) change you. Having said that can I hope that by the way I choose to live my life you will change?
Yes, I can hope! And there is nothing wrong with that. It is only wrong when we live our life hoping someone will change instead of accepting them for who they are. Instead of doing that we should concern ourselves with living a life that will inspire others to be better.
Live a life worthy of being an example.
Do not be concerned with changing anyone but pray you live your life in such a way that it encourages others to live their best life! That is all we can do.
Live by example.
Lead by example.
Stop trying to change others; be the change you want to see!