It is your choice. Not mine or anyone else…only you are responsible for you. YOU CAN DO IT!
If you don’t believe that…. then you are not ready. Laying blame on others for the choices we make is a sign of spiritual (and secular) immaturity! It will keep us stuck where we are and unable to grow and change. You will never change you, let alone the world, as long as you believe someone else is responsible for your choices.