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Grow your Life & Soul

liveYour life is yours to live the way you want, in a way that makes you happy and fulfilled. So many people live their life to please others that it makes them unhappy inside. Their need to please those around them is stronger than their own need.

Anthony Robbins teaches we are driven by two basic needs – pain and pleasure. I honestly believe this as well.  We will avoid anything at all costs to avoid pain. When someone lives a life like I mentioned above, they are avoiding what they “perceive” to be pain. To them the change to live an honest life –  who they really are would be more painful.  Can you imagine how deep that goes? You must find more reasons for it to be better to change, than to not change. Make a list if you need to. Write it down on paper – a…

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